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Teach your children to moderate narcissism, says famous French psychoanalyst Claude Almos

If parents fail to intelligently manage the process, which is important for emotional survival, they will prepare their successors for better life and will not let those extremes that turn into narcissism pathology.

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Moderate narcissism may be really good for person’s development

Narcissism is a complex concept that has acquired very negative meaning and is seen mainly as a kind of mental illness, illustrated by mythology. According to the legend of the cursed nymph that overlooked a beautiful young man sees his image in the waters of the stream and can no longer take his eyes from it. He was so attracted by his reflection that tries to kiss him, he falls into the water and drown becomes a flower bearing his name – Narcissus. This extreme form of self-love not really leads to anything good.
The term does not only cover the extremes, says Almos. Between this to think you worth nothing, and to think that you are the most important person in the world should have a happy medium – a “normal” narcissism, which is required of man. Recently told BBC writer philosopher Mark Vernon also defended this form of narcissism.
Each baby is first attached to itself. At this earliest stage of life human being is itself the center of the world. Studies show that recordings of their own crying baby to rest while recordings of crying babies do other irritable.

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In other studies, only 15 hours after birth, the little man began to discern the voice, face and the smell of his mother, as a part of its own body. When she runs in every sound, it begins to think that has on it the same power as the hand or foot.
This primary narcissism as Freud called it, lasts short because the child gradually realizes that his mother is not a piece of it, it has its own existence and reality out there on which his thought has no power. According to Almos this discovery has extremely important consequences, because it makes the child able to react to the outside world and start to choose the objects of love – people or objects. At the same time, it still loves itself.

Source : dailyhealtharticles[dot]com